Internet-facing ALBs allocated their public IP by calling
externalIPAM.AllocateIP() directly from LaunchSystemInstance, bypassing
the EIP service entirely. No EIPRecord landed in the eips KV bucket, the
tag was "auto_assign" (EIP service uses "elastic_ip"), and
DescribeAddresses never returned the IP — so any OpenTofu flow that
expects an AllocateAddress-observable record hung waiting.
LaunchSystemInstance now calls eipService.AllocateAddress +
AssociateAddress when the EIP service is wired (falls back to the old
direct IPAM path otherwise). TerminateSystemInstance releases through
the service so the KV record is cleaned up and vpc.delete-nat is
published. The generic stopInstance teardown is left untouched so
customer RunInstances flows behave identically.
Also refreshes the nginx-alb terraform example to use public subnets
with auto-assigned public IPs (the configuration that actually exercises
this path end-to-end) and tightens the awsgwBindIP loopback guard in
wireLBAgentConfig so the gateway URL is usable by LB agents.