fix(compose-doctor): recognize Docker socket proxy topologies (#1791)

* fix(compose-doctor): recognize Docker socket proxy topologies

Classify dedicated socket proxies separately from direct docker.sock mounts so Doctor no longer recommends adopting a proxy the stack already uses. Closes #1790.

* fix(compose-doctor): widen socket proxy detection and flag writable proxy sockets

Close the remaining gaps in socket proxy topology handling: a service that
points at a proxy through a tcp:// endpoint on its command line (how Traefik
and friends do it) now gets the client note, proxy API group flags are read
for any truthy value rather than a literal 1, and underscore or dot separated
proxy names are recognized.

Two cases that previously slipped through now surface: a service classified
as a proxy purely by name or image but mounting docker.sock read-write is
reported as high, and a proxy on the implicit default network or on a network
the rendered model does not describe counts as non-internal. A direct socket
mount alongside an existing proxy now names that proxy in its fix.

* fix(compose-doctor): require corroboration before a service name classifies a socket proxy

A service name is free text the author controls, so on its own it could move a
writable docker.sock mount out of the high direct-mount finding. A known proxy
image is an artifact identity and still stands alone; a proxy-shaped name now
counts only alongside an observable fact, a read-only socket or a scoped API
group key.

* fix(compose-doctor): tighten socket-proxy detection against live upstream behavior

Require proxy API flags to be exactly 1 (matching tecnativa and linuxserver
images), count only those enabled flags when classifying a proxy, extract
tcp hosts from DOCKER_HOST instead of treating key presence as a proxy client,
and correlate each client note to one proxy instance by both name and shared
network. Soften the published-port finding so it claims reachability rather
than Docker API exposure for unrelated ports.

backend/src/__tests__/drift-detection.test.ts

@@ -49,6 +49,8 @@ function effSvc(over: Partial<EffService> = {}): EffService {
   return {
     name: 'web', image: 'nginx:1.27', ports: [], binds: [], namedVolumes: [], storageMounts: [],
     privileged: false, restart: 'unless-stopped', envKeys: [],
+    enabledProxyApiFlags: [],
+    dockerEndpointHosts: [],
     networks: [], extraHosts: [], labelKeys: [],
     ...over,
     hasHealthcheck,