feat(fleet-sync): retry failed pushes and backfill on add-node (#970)

A control instance now retries fleet-sync pushes that hit a transient
failure and backfills the security state on a freshly registered remote
without waiting for the next policy edit.

New service:
- FleetSyncRetryService (singleton, start/stop) wakes 30s after boot
  and ticks every 5min. For each fleet resource, queries
  getFailedSyncTargets within a 24h window and re-pushes via
  FleetSyncService.pushResourceToNode through the same per-node mutex,
  so a normal fanout in flight serializes naturally with a retry.
- After STALE_THRESHOLD_MS (1h) of continuous failure for a
  previously-working node, dispatches a single warning notification
  per cooldown window. Brand-new nodes that have never succeeded do
  not alert via this path; misconfigured remotes are caught by the
  test-connection affordance at registration time.
- Wired into bootstrap startup/shutdown next to AutoHealService.

Public surface:
- FleetSyncService.pushResourceToNode(node, resource): targeted push
  to one node that re-uses the per-node mutex. Used by the retry
  service and any future targeted-resync flow.
- routes/nodes.ts POST /api/nodes fires pushResourceAsync for both
  resources after a remote-proxy node row commits.

Tuning constants centralized in fleetSyncConstants.ts:
- RETRY_MAX_AGE_MS = 24h
- STALE_THRESHOLD_MS = 1h

Tests:
- 8 vitest cases covering replica skip, retry dispatch, missing-node
  skip, alert-once-per-cooldown across the threshold window, no-alert
  for recent failures, no-alert for brand-new never-succeeded nodes,
  no-alert when the retry itself succeeds, start/stop idempotency.
- Full backend suite: 1781 pass / 5 skipped.

backend/src/bootstrap/startup.ts

@@ -5,6 +5,7 @@ import { LicenseService } from '../services/LicenseService';
 import SelfUpdateService from '../services/SelfUpdateService';
 import { MonitorService } from '../services/MonitorService';
 import { AutoHealService } from '../services/AutoHealService';
+import { FleetSyncRetryService } from '../services/FleetSyncRetryService';
 import { DockerEventManager } from '../services/DockerEventManager';
 import TrivyService from '../services/TrivyService';
 import { ImageUpdateService } from '../services/ImageUpdateService';
@@ -39,6 +40,7 @@ export async function startServer(server: Server): Promise<void> {
   // safely run alongside the async initializers below.
   MonitorService.getInstance().start();
   AutoHealService.getInstance().start();
+  FleetSyncRetryService.getInstance().start();
   ImageUpdateService.getInstance().start();
   SchedulerService.getInstance().start();
   MfaService.getInstance().start();