fix: make ecstore trash cleanup idempotent (#3205)

* fix(http): reduce header timeout log noise

Log peer_addr for HTTP connection errors so idle or probe traffic can be traced back to the source.

Downgrade HeaderTimeout connection logs from warn to info because these timeouts are often caused by incomplete probe traffic rather than a service-side fault.

* fix(ecstore): suppress spurious warn logs for missing trash cleanup sources

Extract `reliable_rename_inner` with a `warn_on_failure` flag so that
`rename_all_ignore_missing_source` can skip the warn log when the source
is absent. This completes the idempotent cleanup fix — the previous
implementation still emitted a `reliable_rename failed` warning before
the NotFound was caught and silenced.

Also restore the `recursive` branching in `move_to_trash` so that
non-recursive deletions use `fs::rename` directly (preserving original
semantics), while recursive deletions use the idempotent helper.

crates/ecstore/src/disk/local.rs

@@ -26,7 +26,7 @@ use crate::disk::{
     format::FormatV3,
     fs::{O_APPEND, O_CREATE, O_RDONLY, O_TRUNC, O_WRONLY, access, lstat, lstat_std, remove, remove_all_std, remove_std, rename},
     os,
-    os::{check_path_length, is_empty_dir, is_root_disk, rename_all},
+    os::{check_path_length, is_empty_dir, is_root_disk, rename_all, rename_all_ignore_missing_source},
 };
 use crate::erasure_coding::bitrot_verify;
 use crate::global::{GLOBAL_IsErasureSD, GLOBAL_RootDiskThreshold};
@@ -929,19 +929,20 @@ impl LocalDisk {
         // }
 
         let err = if recursive {
-            rename_all(delete_path, trash_path, self.get_bucket_path(RUSTFS_META_TMP_DELETED_BUCKET)?)
+            rename_all_ignore_missing_source(delete_path, trash_path, self.get_bucket_path(RUSTFS_META_TMP_DELETED_BUCKET)?)
                 .await
                 .err()
         } else {
-            rename(&delete_path, &trash_path)
-                .await
-                .map_err(|e| to_file_error(e).into())
-                .err()
+            match rename(&delete_path, &trash_path).await {
+                Ok(()) => None,
+                Err(err) if err.kind() == ErrorKind::NotFound => None,
+                Err(err) => Some(to_file_error(err).into()),
+            }
         };
 
         if immediate_purge || delete_path.to_string_lossy().ends_with(SLASH_SEPARATOR) {
             let trash_path2 = self.get_object_path(RUSTFS_META_TMP_DELETED_BUCKET, Uuid::new_v4().to_string().as_str())?;
-            let _ = rename_all(
+            let _ = rename_all_ignore_missing_source(
                 encode_dir_object(delete_path.to_string_lossy().as_ref()),
                 trash_path2,
                 self.get_bucket_path(RUSTFS_META_TMP_DELETED_BUCKET)?,