ci: replace ubuntu-latest runner with sm-standard-2 across workflows (#8112)

* ci: replace ubuntu-latest runner with sm-standard-2 across workflows

* ci: keep scheduled-validation monitors on hosted runners

The freshness and watchdog jobs report stalled scheduled validations.
Running them on the same sm-standard-2 pool means a pool outage stalls
the monitors too, so nothing reports it.

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Co-authored-by: overtrue <anzhengchao@gmail.com>

.github/workflows/targets-integration.yml

@@ -41,7 +41,7 @@ env:
 jobs:
   targets-live:
     name: PostgreSQL, MySQL, AMQP, and NATS
-    runs-on: ubuntu-latest
+    runs-on: sm-standard-2
     timeout-minutes: 90
     env:
       FORCE_JAVASCRIPT_ACTIONS_TO_NODE24: "true"
@@ -177,7 +177,7 @@ jobs:
     if: >-
       always() && github.event_name == 'schedule' &&
       (contains(needs.*.result, 'failure') || contains(needs.*.result, 'cancelled'))
-    runs-on: ubuntu-latest
+    runs-on: sm-standard-2
     timeout-minutes: 10
     permissions:
       contents: read