fix(ilm): fail closed on unsafe manual job recovery

Mark expired manual transition jobs Unknown when recovery cannot prove queued worker outcomes are durable. Enforce ETag-guarded admission release with exact delete preconditions so stale releasers cannot remove a replacement admission, while still allowing drained cancelled jobs to terminate.

Co-Authored-By: heihutu <heihutu@gmail.com>

crates/ecstore/src/set_disk/ops/object.rs

@@ -3070,6 +3070,7 @@ impl crate::storage_api_contracts::object::ObjectOperations for SetDisks {
         }
 
         if version_found {
+            opts.precondition_check(&goi)?;
             check_object_lock_delete(bucket, object, &goi, &opts).await?;
         }